You know that person who can finish your sentences?T hat person who you can tell your deepest secrets to? The person who, as you try to describe something in your mind, he can already see it in his? Yeah, well that person is my best friend. And I married him. Lately many people close to me have been ending their marriages and this saddens me deeply. And while I don't know the depth of their circumstances, mainly I just hear either one of the sides of the story, I sometimes wonder if maybe, just maybe, they could have tried a little bit harder to stay together. Sure, divorce is warranted in cases of abuse or adultery, although I've seen some couples heal after the latter, love, it seems, is what the answer is. But most important- is forgiveness . "It takes two to tango", my grandmother always said. And in fact it is her story that has given me strength. Her story is one of forgiveness and love. Having gone through two abusive and adulterous relationsh...
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